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How to reconnect to your feminine capacity to surrender

The more I work with women, the more I witness the frustration that women feel when they are unable to relax, let go and TRUST, in other words SURRENDER.

On some level we know that part of being placed here in a feminine body is to be open and receptive to love, to not harden ourselves against the world and live with suspicion and fear.

Unfortunately the reality is that most of us women were conditioned to fear rather than trust, hold on rather than let go, dim our light rather than happily, confidently unashamedly beam it out into the world.

We hold this conditioning in our
bodies, as rigidity, stiffness.
The fearful voice, both conscious
and unconscious, whispering
to us messages like
'you are not good enough' and
'what will people think'
which causes us to shut down
and close off.

Often there is an underlying (and usually unexplored) belief that it is not a safe world, it is not safe to shine our light, be sexy and confident and claim the love, the fullness, the...

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When he is just not THAT into you

If the guy you are into, is not THAT into you (or if this is a familiar pattern) and you want to USE this situation to become the woman who can love herself, no matter what AND create the kind of intimate relationships you REALLY want.

Then… this is for you.

( BTW this applies to your partner whatever the gender!)

I share this from my own experience. A guy I had begun to see was not returning my messages.

He was obviously not' leaning towards me' OUCH!!!! Old pattern!!!

Initially I felt despair, then I realized “ What an opportunity to transform!”

Here are some simple steps to make the experience of being ‘rejected’ into an opportunity for transformation.


There are usually two ways we respond to a guy not being into us.

We wait and hope - in other words we live in a fantasyland in which he is just about to ‘show up’.

This is the first illusion to take a good look...

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Crying whilst making love-Sexual Healing in relationship 101

Really good love making is not just about groaning with pleasure, it can also be about crying with abandon.

Most women are holding deep levels of shame, self hatred and unworthiness in their bodies

This is held as actual tension and corresponding energetic blockages.

Sex that is loving, and imbued with presence and devotion has the ability to release these blockages

The layers of holding can be accessed WHEN we REALLY open to the energy moving inside of us (with sound , movement , breath, willingness, unconditional acceptance, presence and LOVE)

For when we do then fresh life force energy comes flooding through, washing us clear of the past, knocking up against the debris that we have held in our energy bodies and bringing it to the fore.

Anything that wasn’t felt or expressed in the past, may come up to be felt, accepted, expressed as a cleansing - a clearing.

This healing transformation can happen in the midst of the fire of sexual desire when the the container...

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